Monday, July 30, 2012

Telling Stories


Telling Stories

Recently, I attended a presentation for work where I learned about a new eLearning development tool called Articulate Storyline.  The presentation made me think about how telling stories is something we are raised with from infancy in the “verbal news of the day.”  And, if we are very lucky, our parents read to us.  We hear tales of great adventures, mystery, or fantasy and our imagination opens up. We think of possibilities and explore outcomes. We learn.

As we get older, stories remain part of our lives.  I remember loving to sit in a quiet corner when my parents had their friends over to play bridge.  I loved listening to the pattern of conversation, as they shared stories about their friends, their work, their families, and about people I’d never heard of. It was through those stories that I learned some things about the world – how it worked, what was valued and what wasn’t, and how people behaved and communicated.

As I watched the story of this software tool unfold, I found myself thinking about how I tell stories. My tool isn’t this one, and my stories don’t necessarily serve the same purpose or convey the same messages. But my stories do preserve memories and capture moments. My stories are told with photographs, words, and observations.  They capture what is important about my life and the life of my family. And they are rich in context, telling the story of how our lives work, what we value and how we communicate.

Ultimately, my stories will become the stories of my children. They will cement their memories, illustrate our values, and become part of the tapestry of their lives. For this I am grateful and for this reason I will continue to tell stories in my way, in my time, and with my tools.

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Engaging good luck and opportunity

I've been thinking about vision boards a lot lately.  In a nutshell, the definition of a vision board is a picture you create of the things you want in your life.  Back about 15 years ago, I was really unhappy with where my life was.  I felt I had given up a lot of control over what was happening and hadn't really engaged in making my life what I wanted it to be. So I created my first "vision board."  In this format, my vision board took the form of writing down the things I wanted to be different in my life.  In doing some cleaning recently, I came across the notebook that housed that information.  It is amazing to me how much of what I put into those pages is now true about my life.

The potential for good fortune lies within us, but only if we engage in the opportunity. If we simply wait for things to go our way, we might notice that while some positive things happen, they are not lasting. They tend to pass along without making a huge impact on our lives. Creating our luck, however, takes an entirely different approach, whereby we look at every situation as something that is lucky—an opportunity to do something that allows us to better our lives, rather than constantly feeling stuck in the same place, doing the same things, but expecting different results. (A definition of insanity, for sure!)

Engaging in the opportunity means being brave enough to change things and move ourselves out of the stagnancy of the places where we feel stuck. Stagnancy can be weighty - dragging down what is good in life to sit at the level of that general stagnation. Opening up to the freedom of imaging changes is what a vision board is all about. Then using that freedom to affirm the change is what makes it possible.